Before using this starter, remember to review the idea of emotional consent.
Beginning
What are your love languages (giving and receiving)?
What’s the best book you’ve ever read about love?
How might I know if you love someone (ie how you act, what you say about them, etc)?
Do you think you say “I love you” too much, not enough, or just right? Why?
What’s your favorite quote about love?
What’s your favorite song about love?
Diving in
What have you learned recently about love?
Do you believe in soulmates? Why or why not?
Tell us about someone you love! Get as detailed as you want.
What might surprise us about how you act in a close relationship with another person (doesn’t need to be romantic)?
Do you tend to: prioritize relationships over friendships, friendships over relationships, or hold both things as equally as you can? Why?
How do you feel about the current amount of love in your life right now? What about in general looking across your entire life?
What’s something that changed how you love others?
Deep end
Tell us about your first heartbreak (as much or as little as you want).
What’s the wildest thing you’ve done for love?
How do you know when you love someone?
What did your family teach you about love, for better or worse?
What kind of love do you tend to seek out? Why do you think that is?
What do you find hard about loving another person?
Tell us about the best love letter you’ve ever written or received.
What advice would you give about love?
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